Body shaming isn't a thing until its used as an excuse to undermine your own physical well being. I am not attractive by any means. Just super authentic. I rather keep it that way. Once people take that into account insecurities will surface. The way to counter act this aspect is to match characteristics which prevail over reverse psychology. Most people will tell you they generally enjoy keeping fit and active. On the contrary there is an entire different culture associated with narcissism which is prevalent and irrelevant to the human condition. I like my body based on who I am, not what I'm not.