Real Life

 January 24th 2011

Simply because you have an agnostic attitude against a male person(s), does that constitute that all males are bad people.  More than likely some of us (myself included) do condone a freedom of choice.  However, does that also equate to a lifestyle, of alienating a person based on sexual preference?

 

I am a straight male. 

 

I've noticed on more than one occasion, sexuality based lifestyle choices, carry out stamps of approval.  

 

I feel myself, not being a person privy to another persons sexual orientation i.e. gay lifestyle choices gives me a label of being straight.  Therefore, because I am a straight individual, I automatically stereotype against such variably driven sexuality.

 

I was oblivious to the fact, that there are some woman I am attracted to, completely undermine that I rather be dominant, when in fact - those same women happen to be lesbian.  That unless I was open to being a man of similar next to bi-sexual status, I am just another one of those straight males who only want to dominate the relationship scale.

 

The question for me is, do I really attribute myself to such a type of alienation on a day to day level of existence, nor would I want to.

 

Yet, if I feel that stereotypes placed onto me, (a) I have to asunder, then (b) not to reveal myself as a good standing male, (c) typically under no better circumstances, (d) does that make me a better person who deflects criticism against people's better judgment?  In this case the better judgment of same sex relationships, whether they become attracted to me e.g. follows the next 'conditional . . .that not unless I confirm I am an equal i.e. bi-sexual in orientation, so she can feel safe that all bets are off, she wants no part of me whatsoever even on a basic level of understanding.

 

This has been my unadulterated experience on such experiences I've encountered as they exist within establishing parameters of same sex-relationship models.

 

Same sex relationships, whether or not commitment want no relation subject to dependency of opposite sex members within the community they make a part of.  I find this not only misleading to true long-standing members of the gay community but disingenuous of those which act contrary to popular beliefs.

- Marco

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And if I were to start guessing incorrectly of my self-based opinion, who am I to deprive others of my natural misgiving. Food for thought.

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So I another form of art in sexuality, depriving is the new weapon of deceit. Fuck this world is ridiculous.

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