Saturday, January 29, 2005

When I travel in the future, I think about my career taking off... working as a professional actor. Looking to my past, I see myself as an outgoing individual. Marriage is a definite possibility?

My truth is showing.

All of my fears are turning into smiles.

Any person ahead of his time will not relent.

I've been through pain, suffering and neglect.

My parents (...mother and father...) are my salvation.

Right now I know that limiting my potential has its boundaries. However, I've set the boundaries necessary for me, because through the process of healing I've won the battle!!

Negative thoughts were the things that I didn't realize I could discard at any given moment. When I had negative thoughts, I wouldn't know what to do with them!

It's about weighing in on my own pros and cons, strengths and weaknesses, habits, interests and desires.

When children begin to "rebel" (reasoning the way a child may act towards you...) is to prove that children are more capable then you? The boy or girl, (...as they're influenced in their behaviors), aren't allowed to act.

You see the parent, wondering if the child isn't obeying the rules or haven't the rebellious boy or girl broken the rules a parent has made?

The parent/child relationship is a molding or labeling of the child/parent bond. The bonding only infers that the child has permission to act based on the environment, provided that the parent offers them permission.

The identity of the child, probably could be independent if the parent becomes punitive? Does the child only view the parent as the guardian or legitimately a police officer? How successful have the parents become in the authority of the children, doesn't this depend on the quality of ones ability to foster care and strategy to administer what's best for the child?

My question: reflects that parenting attunes the child to adapt and adjust a psychological nature... is an existentialist answer. In other words the child becomes an existentialist property of the parent/child bond. The camaraderie is ritual. Ritualized in the patterns of behavior that links the child to its parent, "troubling world of reality." That is to say that the child fails in the real world to synchronize the patterns that the parent adopts. Perhaps symptoms would include, anger, frustration and resentment. Resilience, restraint and resistance of the laws in an existential world? Therefore the child is constraint to philosophical imperatives.

The child will experience infinite variables of good, evil, greed or the question of who is god. However the child's experience is finite.

In retrospect or if you will divulge with agreement, the hindsight a child would experience?

The parent must approach the child in an attempt to reach a mutual accord or understand, so that the trust in a relationship can harden before "cracking". If the child can intercept the parents wishes, then the parent is in understanding with what the child's needs are... than the child can benefit. The conduct of the child represents the parent.












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